Tim: Black, White and 9

My apologies for my lack of updates over the years. When you have nothing remarkable in the past few years and they do not build substantial things, they do not make you a better person, you just simply do not grow and there is nothing interesting in a stale plastic thing that was me in the past few years.  Life is not about driving a big car, living in a big house, wearing designer clothing, living harmoniously with a wife and having some well-adjusted kids, or dining in the hardest to book restaurants as and when you desire. Life is about making the most out of what you have. Everyone is shaped by the era they are in. My grandparents had to make a choice over a poor and resourceless China and a poor and resourceless newly independent country they were in, and they chose the latter, simply because their Chinese homes were so fragmented they might have more resources to survive with. They were tragically right, as China went through the initial pain of stabilization. My parents als...

How to Prepare For Your QHHT Session * Prepare a list of questions you would like your SC (subconscious) to answer. Make one list of physical/health questions you have and another separate list of personal/life questions you want answered. Bring these with you to your session. I don’t need to see them ahead of time. If you have a long list of questions please put your most important questions at the top of each list. My goal is to get every question answered but we work with a two hour window where you are hypnotized. In that time frame I am inducing you, exploring past lives/other experiences, and accessing your High Self to answer questions and then bringing you out. Please print or write out neatly your list of questions; please don’t bring the list on a device like your phone or iPad. * Your intention to having a great session is key! Once you have made the decision to have a QHHT session, already your High Self is preparing and getting ready to have a wonderful conversa...

If there is anyone I really want to aspire to be, I want to be Allen Iverson. There are many legends I get to watch playing. Michael Jordan, Kobe Bryant, Paul Pierce and Stephen Curry are among my favorite players. Jordan has the will to win. Bryant will do anything just to win, including wearing all kinds of shoes in one season. Pierce is always a hero for being the anchor of the the second Celtics Big Three. Curry revolutionized the game by downing baskets further from the hoop - and having the humility to make better players than him even better. The four players I mentioned are true team players. They do not go against the norm. They focus on winning. They thrive cooperating with coaches who mostly deserve their credit. They do not hog the team all the time - I grew up believing even Jordan wanted Rodman on his team to grab rebounds. I aspire to be team players - when there is a great coach who builds a great ecosystem for me to grow as a person, and contribute fully as a tea...

Initial Impressions of Kusama I found a poster like this, first on the airport, then on a train station: My initial impressions of Ms Kusama: Her wild hair seems even wilder than wild youths, her mushroom hair is stylish, and her expression is serious yet calm. Her art style alone is whimsical and vibrant. She brings out 'life' that is je ne sais pas sort of manner. The bright and warm colours, the dots that are repeated over and over, her bright shiny features, they just bring an abundance of joy and excitement. Her work is deceptively simple - looks plain, but deep within, it seems like a rich tapestry of a long and exciting journey the artist went through. A dot looks like an atom. When we wake up, sometimes when we open our eyes, we see many small dots. The dots spread in the vast world and it fills our world. I immediately made a connection with the dots. What a lovely and colourful lady! She looks like the perfect grandmother I wished I had: very foc...

I aspire to speak up and advocates for people of disabilities, various disabilities. To achieve our goal, we have members representing the sensory, physical and developmental disability communities. For most disability groups, I know I am able to have a term to describe the disability. I met members who describe themselves as 'blind', 'deaf','autistic', 'physically disabled' and so on. In most cases, I am able to ask what is the disability that they identify with. Dots of Pumpkins Then there is one situation, where no matter what is the name I call, it just does not seem right. It sounds somewhat inappropriate. It is the group with, the lack of a more appropriate term I can think of right now, should I say, 'intellectual disability?' From an oft-quoted part from the Shakespeare play Romeo and Juliet, 'a rose by any other name will smell as sweet'. Surely the intellectual disabled community is a beautiful and capable one. They ...

Life has its peaks and valleys. However, I am not sure when I will even see the upside in life. I have lost my confidence to even do anything substantial in life. I do not even know what satisfies me. A few calm moments in life had given me grief and sorrows. I am not sure what do I see in my window. Do I see much annoyance and grief, or am I seeing many faces marching towards stupidity, suffering and sorrows? I could drown myself in these big falls I am really annoyed by the observation that I do not see alternatives to what I see out there. I thought I really worked hard in my life to try to be the change I want to see. Then I realise the more things change, the more they don't. And I am always bearing the brunt of things - or so I thought. As a highly sensitive individual I have to make do with feeling too many intense moments in life. I worry for my country, Singapore. I am deeply concerned Singapore is not in a favourable geopolitical situation in our world. Sin...